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July 25th, 2021

7/25/2021

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Stress And The Western World
Living in the high-stress, fast-paced life of our contemporary, western world leaves you with little time for yourself. One of the best things you can do in your precious free time is to cultivate the art of letting go.
Letting go is an art form and indeed, a science that is more commonplace in eastern cultures where meditation is practiced and where materialism does not exist in the same way it does here.
People may possess very little “stuff” and yet their inner happiness and calm is testimony to the quality of their inner life.
How do they do that?
Our Fleeting Existence
Cultural mindsets in India and Tibet, Thailand and Vietnam, for example, are more aware of the limitations of our mortal existence, how temporary our existence is, and how, as the Tibetan Buddhists say, “Death can come at any time.”
Here in the west we tend to deny that death exists, we pretend we will live forever and we idolize a culture of youth and beauty, minimizing the value of the wisdom, which accompanies old age. The accumulation of wealth is one of our main aims. We mistakenly assume that going shopping will bring us happiness!
Depression Is An Epidemic
Yet we suffer, from an epidemic of depression, and we are dependent on prescription drugs like never before. Stress causes tension in the body and tension in the body leads to disease. Your mind may be focused on the future, on what hasn’t yet happened.
This usually manifests in the form of worry. Alternatively, your mind is ruminating on past events and how they didn’t go the way you wanted them to. Either way you are neither aware of, nor accepting of, your present circumstances.
Letting Go, The Art
Letting go is an art, which takes practice, but if you master it, it can lead to inner peace, and happiness. It can take many different forms. Here are some ways you can practice letting go:
  • Meditation. There are many types of meditation. In a nutshell, meditation allows you to practice observing your thoughts, without being caught up in them. It gives you the capacity to detach from your thoughts. Thoughts come, and when we let them, they go. In this state, the body begins to relax.
  • Mindfulness. Mindfulness is really one form of meditation. It is the art of being present. By focusing on what is happening in this present moment we are able to let go of our preoccupations with the past or the future. By becoming present, we are able to live a richer, more authentic life.
  • Relaxation. Relaxation focuses on letting go of physical stress and tension. This in turn leads to the mind letting go and becoming more still. Deep relaxation is very beneficial to the overall health of the body and the mind.
Letting Go, The Science
Science has shown that relaxation, meditation and mindfulness can reduce symptoms of stress, heart disease, depression, and anxiety. That is very good news!
In a short time frame of a few weeks and practising for as little as ten minutes each day, positive results have been gleaned.
If you feel that life is getting you down, that stress is overwhelming and you wonder how you can cope, perhaps it is time you really considered that the benefits of a few minutes relaxing each day far outweigh the costs of investing that short amount of time in your own well-being.  
Instead of thinking that you do not have time to relax or meditate, isn’t it time to realize that you do not have time not to?
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I Am My 1st Priority

7/17/2021

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Hi Friends!

So it's been about a month since my last blog post. I had to take care of myself - period. 

Thank God that I get to work for myself, but that is part of my plan since I was 18 years old. I realized that for me to be my first priority, I would need to, and very much wanted to, have my own business.

I have worked for other people before and I found that taking care of myself first was not always possible or easy.

Here's what being my first priority looks like:
  • Taking naps when my body tells me that is what it needs
  • Taking time to be with myself for necessary mental health breaks
  • Saying no to things that don't feel good to me mentally, physically and/or spiritually.
  • Saying no just because I don't want to say yes.
  • Setting boundaries
  • Eating healthy foods that have been prepared in a healthy way - this means cooking for myself, often.

Those are only a few of the ways that I make myself my number one priority. Those things are hard to put into place when working for someone else however, it is not impossible and I can show you how.

While off, taking care of myself, I had a lot of ideas about things that I'd like to share with you. 

One of my ideas is doing a podcast about nothing. Yep, nothing. I won't go into detail because I don't want to put it out there before it's ready, plus you probably think I'm crazy to even think that a podcast about nothing is something.

Secondly, I've started creating a course centered around food, delicious, wholesome, food; and that's all on that.

The third idea of mine which I've actually implemented already, is that I will be accepting one-on-one clients into a 12 week program only. In the past my clients have been one-on-one without a predetermined end date. What I have found is that those who listen and implement the strategies that we come up with are good to go after about 12 weeks. So there's that.

So while I've been away, taking care of myself - cuz that's what you do when you make yourself your priority, I have also been thinking about you and the ways that I can support you in making yourself your priority.

Are you currently number 1 on your list of priorities? Comment below and tell me about it.




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